Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Maybe I'm getting it right this time??

So I have been dating a new guy. Who's pretty cool. He has initials for a first name, and a goatee and shit. Basically he is sarcastic and intelligent and has me finally thinking about the term "relationship" again. Not that I'm jumping the gun on this one, it's just casual dating when your intentions are for it to go nowhere is completely different than dating someone that you actually like and can see it possibly going somewhere, you're just not sure where yet. You start to do things that the "two of you" do. You start to create memories and inside jokes that only the two of you will understand. Things that you will look back on and laugh about in ten years. Doing things that you will say "that is so us," "that's what we do." He's funny and he makes me feel good when I'm with him. And the three hour distance between us makes it better in my opinion. It doesn't allow me to be needy. Even though I want to see him, he is three hours away for work which is completely understandable so I cannot beg or pout about him not being here because he simply cannot be. It allows us both to keep our independence but throughly enjoy our time together because we know it's short lived until next time. And I love how we always leave knowing there will be a next time.

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