Then I text him and told him that he could stay in town and spend time with me tomorrow, since I have the day off, another occurrence that is few and far between. When I checked facebook, he did not stay in town and I had never heard back from him. Yet again another clear indication that he does not really want to see me!
You always have to love unsolicited man advice. They always seems to have a way of putting a perspective on the situation that you never had thought of, and probably never would have. My boss said to me; "Michele I would have went off. Here you are letting him drive your car, and he probably used it to go and hook up with blondie and then he had the audacity to drop it off, blow you off, and have her pick him back up, where you work. What could you say to this. I just stared at him in amazement because interestingly enough, he was probably right. I didn't want to think this way, it was just a friend, a blonde attractive, friend right? We all have those.
Ugh no. I think this was what pushed me over the edge. Here I am trying to help this guy because I'm a good person. I believe everyone needs help and he is using me and I am making excuses for him. I'm rationalizing with my heart, saying that it's my fault. I'm the one who doesn't want to date him, or at least that is what I say, so I keep saying, how can I blame him? It's my fault? I'm doing the same thing.
HELLO GIRL! I'm doing the same thing because I don't know if I want to be with him. I'm keeping my options open because I don't see potential with him, and why don't I think that he's not doing the same thing? Because he is. He is keeping his options open because he doesn't want to be with me, because in my experience, if a guy wants to see you, he'll drive to you. If a guy wants to call you, he calls. And if a guy loves you and wants to be with you, he will stop at nothing to have you. So I am going to stay happily single BY CHOICE until I find the guy who will do this for me. Rejoice girl...no more tool bags
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